The Endless Tunnel

Strictly speaking, this is not a letter, because it is not written in the format of one. It is closer to a short essay. In it, I share some thoughts about the seven years of education I experienced in China, along with a few simple observations I made after coming to Canada.

Author’s Note

This article was written during my first summer after arriving in Canada. At that time, I looked back on the seven years of education I experienced in China and recorded some personal observations.

Reading it again now, I can clearly feel that my way of thinking has changed. Because of this, I made some minor revisions to certain expressions to make the language more rational, while still preserving the overall thinking of that time.

I believe that documenting the evolution of one’s thinking is itself part of growth.

Originally, I planned to write several letters to you. Unfortunately, because I also had to prepare for an English exam, I ended up writing only one. I chose what I believe is the most important topic and would also like to hear your thoughts.

Why do I think this topic matters so much?

The 17th-century educator John Amos Comenius, often called the "father of modern education," once wrote: "Only after receiving an appropriate education can a person truly become a person." At the moment, we are all in secondary school and have our own experiences and reflections about school life. For that reason, I believe this topic is worth discussing.

Next, I will talk about some of my views on primary school and middle school, along with a few pieces of information I found online.


Primary School

Let's start with the stage most familiar to us: primary school.

Although only Tong Yiyan and Cheng Jiale were my classmates in primary school, we have always communicated a lot, so we still have some understanding of each other's experiences.

When people talk about primary school, the first thing that often comes to mind is academic performance. In many situations, grades almost determine a student's position and influence within the class. The idea of "well-rounded development," in practice, often still revolves around academic results.

But I want to make one objective point: grades cannot fully represent a person's abilities or character, nor can they determine a person's overall value.

So why do schools still place such strong emphasis on grades?

One practical reason is that China has a very large population, while educational resources and job opportunities are limited. Under these conditions, schools often need a simple and intuitive metric that allows easy comparison. Grades happen to serve this function.

In contrast, things like cognitive ability, practical skills, and independent thinking are also important, but they are much harder to measure and compare directly.

Of course, this does not mean that studying in school has no value. My point is that besides academic performance, we should also pay attention to other important abilities, such as reading, communication, thinking, and practical skills.


Status and Influence in School

Another topic is the selection of class leaders, group leaders, and similar roles—what I previously described as "status" and "influence."

These roles exist for two main reasons.

First, from a management perspective, teachers need some students to help handle class affairs, such as maintaining order, delivering information, or organizing activities. For students, these positions often represent recognition and responsibility.

Second, these roles also test certain abilities, including communication, organization, and social skills.

However, in reality, not everyone has the opportunity to take on these roles. Many students ultimately place most of their attention on academic results, while paying less attention to developing other abilities.


The Reality of "Well-Rounded Development"

Here I want to add another reason why so-called "well-rounded development" often still revolves around grades in practice.

For example, some primary school students who aim to enter better middle schools not only attend tutoring classes, but also learn instruments such as piano, guitar, or guzheng, or participate in competitions and extracurricular activities.

On the surface, this appears to be multi-dimensional development.

But in many cases, these activities are still treated as additional advantages in academic competition. When the evaluation system remains centered on academic performance, other activities are easily absorbed into the same competitive framework.

Of course, primary school is not entirely negative. At least during that stage, we still had more time to make friends, read books, participate in activities, and encounter many new things.

(I would also like to take a moment to acknowledge the reading club from those years.)


Middle School

Next comes middle school.

For many people, middle school is the stage where pressure increases significantly. Many families treat getting into a "good middle school" as a major goal, as if completing this step will guarantee a smoother life afterward.

But from a longer-term perspective, middle school is only one stage in the educational path. After that come high school, university, and the challenges of entering society.

Since the issue of grades has already been discussed, I want to briefly talk about another experience many students encounter for the first time: military training.

From a young age, we are often taught to respect teachers. There is nothing wrong with that. But at the same time, we should also understand something important: teachers are ordinary people as well, and their views cannot always be completely correct.

In some environments, teachers' authority is rarely questioned, while students are mainly expected to obey and execute instructions. To a certain extent, this model may reduce students' space to express different opinions and may not be helpful for developing independent thinking.

Military training reinforces this emphasis on discipline and obedience. Students are required to act according to unified commands—standing in formation, marching, responding to orders, and so on.

These exercises can certainly cultivate discipline. But if there is little room for reflection, people may gradually become accustomed to simply following instructions.


A Broader Question: Employment

Finally, I want to return to a broader topic—employment.

According to data released by China's National Bureau of Statistics, at one point the unemployment rate for urban youth aged 16 to 24 reached 14.9% (excluding students). In other words, roughly one or two out of every ten young people were temporarily unable to find a job.

Of course, employment problems are complex and cannot be attributed solely to the education system. However, if the evaluation system in education relies too heavily on a single metric, students' skill structures may also become narrow.

In the long run, what a person truly needs is not only the ability to perform well on exams, but also reading ability, learning ability, communication ability, and independent thinking.


Final Thoughts

No matter what kind of educational environment we are in, we can still try to do a few additional things: read more books, explore different areas of knowledge, practice independent thinking, and learn another language.

Gradually, you may find a path that belongs to you.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. See you next time.

无穷无尽的隧道

2026/3/13 GMT-4 作者说明:

这篇文章写于我来到加拿大后的第一个暑假。当时我回顾了自己在中国经历的七年教育,并记录了一些个人观察。

现在再读这篇文章,我能明显感觉到自己的思考方式已经发生了变化。因此我对部分表达做了轻微修改,使语言更加理性,但整体内容仍然保留了当时的思考状态。

我认为记录思考的演变,本身也是成长的一部分。

无穷无尽的隧道

准确地说,这并不是一封信,因为我并没有按照信的格式来写。这更像是一篇小论文,里面包含了我对于在中国经历的七年教育的一些想法,以及来到加拿大之后做的一些简单观察,与大家分享。

本来我是打算给你们写好几封信的。可惜因为我还要准备英语考试,所以最后只写了一封。我挑了一个我认为最重要的话题跟大家分享,也希望大家能够交流自己的想法。

为什么我认为这个话题最重要呢?

17世纪的教育家、被誉为"教育学之父"的夸美纽斯曾说过:"只有受过一种合适的教育过后,人才能成为一个人。"而我们几个人也刚好处在中学时期,对学校的学习生活都有自己的体验和想法,所以我认为这个话题还是很有讨论价值的。

接下来,我会谈一谈自己对小学和初中的一些看法,以及我在网上查到的一些资料。

首先,从我们最熟悉的小学时代开始。虽然我只和童一焱、程嘉乐是小学同学,但好在我们之间的交流一直很多,所以对彼此的经历多少也有一些了解。

说起小学,很多人的第一反应可能就是学习成绩。毕竟在很多情况下,成绩几乎代表了一个学生在班级中的位置和话语权。所谓的"全面发展",在实际环境中往往还是围绕成绩展开。

但我想说一句比较客观的话:学习成绩并不能完全体现一个人的能力和品质,也无法决定一个人的全部价值。

那么为什么学校仍然如此重视成绩呢?一个现实的原因是,中国的人口规模很大,而教育资源和岗位数量都是有限的。在这种情况下,学校往往需要一种简单、直观、便于比较的指标来进行筛选,而成绩正好符合这一点。

相比之下,像"认知能力""实践能力""独立思考能力"这样的东西,虽然同样重要,却很难被直接量化和比较。

当然,我并不是说在学校学习没有意义。我的意思是,除了学习成绩之外,我们也应该关注一些同样重要的能力,例如阅读能力、表达能力、思考能力和实践能力。

其次,是竞选班干部、小组长之类的职位,也就是我之前提到的"地位"和"影响力"。

这些角色的出现,其实有两个原因。

第一,从管理角度来说,老师需要一些学生协助处理班级事务,例如维持秩序、传达信息、组织活动等。而对于学生来说,这些职位也意味着一种认可和责任。

第二,这些角色在某种程度上也会考验学生的综合能力,例如表达能力、组织能力和社交能力。

不过在现实环境中,并不是每个人都有机会参与这些角色。很多学生最终还是把主要精力放在成绩上,而较少关注其他能力的发展。

接下来,我想补充一下为什么我认为很多所谓的"全面发展",在实际操作中仍然围绕成绩展开。

例如,一些为了考上更好中学的小学生,不仅要上各种补习班,还要学习钢琴、吉他、古筝等艺术课程,或者参加各种竞赛和活动。从表面上看,这似乎是多方面的发展。

但在很多情况下,这些活动依然被当作一种升学竞争中的加分项。当评价体系仍然以成绩为核心时,其他活动也很容易被纳入同一套竞争逻辑之中。

当然,小学也并不是一无是处。至少在那个阶段,我们还有比较多的时间去交朋友、读书、参加活动,也能够接触到各种各样的新事物。(在这里也致敬一下当年的读书会。)

接下来,就说到初中了。

对很多人来说,初中往往是压力明显增加的阶段。许多家庭会把"进入好初中"看作一个重要的目标,仿佛只要完成了这一步,之后的人生就会顺利很多。

但从更长远的角度来看,初中只是教育路径中的一个阶段。后面还有高中、大学以及真正进入社会之后的挑战。

因为成绩的问题在前面已经提到过了,所以这里我想简单谈一下另一个很多学生都会经历的新事物——军训。

从小我们常常被教育要尊重老师,这一点本身没有问题。但与此同时,我们也需要理解一件事情:老师同样是普通人,他们的观点也不可能永远完全正确。

在某些环境中,老师的权威很少被质疑,而学生则更多被要求服从和执行。这种模式在一定程度上可能会减少学生表达不同意见的空间,也不利于培养独立思考能力。

军训在某种程度上强化了这种"纪律"和"服从"的训练方式。学生需要按照统一的要求行动,例如站军姿、列队、听从口令等。这些训练确实可以培养纪律性,但如果缺乏思考空间,也容易让人习惯单纯地执行指令。

最后,我再回到一个更宏观的话题——就业。

根据中国国家统计局公布的数据,某一时期16—24岁城镇青年失业率达到14.9%(不包含在校生)。这意味着,在十个年轻人当中,大约有一到两个人暂时找不到工作。

当然,就业问题的原因非常复杂,不可能简单归结为教育体系。但如果教育评价体系过度依赖单一指标,那么学生的能力结构也可能变得比较单一。

从长期来看,一个人真正需要的,往往不仅仅是考试能力,还包括阅读能力、学习能力、表达能力以及独立思考能力。

因此,无论身处什么样的教育环境,我们或许都可以尝试做一些额外的事情:多读书,多接触不同的知识,多进行独立思考,也多学习一门语言。

慢慢地,你也许会找到属于自己的道路。

感谢你的耐心阅读,我们下次再见。